I didn’t get into Sundance (this time).

Maybe you and I have this in common. Here is why it matters, why it doesn't matter, and finally some advice.

I didn’t get into Sundance (again).

There is an unspoken rule in my world that you’re not supposed to say you didn’t get into Sundance (or whatever prestigious thing you had your heart set on), because you don’t want the stench of failure attached to your baby before it’s even born.